My Personal Mission in Life

SUNDAY, JUNE 12, 2011

My Personal Mission in Life

             Me as a  student my personal mission in life is finish my studies and proceed to my ambition to be a good and useful citizen in this country, but before that i have to soar high so that i can achieve the goal of my life. to achieve my ambition i have to study hard and get  a high grades and graduate in the course of Bachelor of Science and Technology Teaching Education (BSTTE) major in Industrial Technology (IT).
            This year i studied at Mindanao State University Iligan  Institute of Technology (MSU IIT), were i presently taking up a course of Bachelor of Science and Technology Teaching Education (BSTTE) major in  Industrial Technology (IT). It was hard to believe that i have given a chance to study in a standard school like MSU IIT .I know i don't wings but i believe i can soar high and reach my ambition. And have learn to think  myself as something and see my potential in life, so that my family will proud at me and i'll become winner somehow. I compare myself as a chicken. Why chicken? Because chicken are so dependent and i know it was wrong in the past many years and also this year i am so dependent to my family, they are the one who are making a decision for me and i just follow what they want for me. but this coming years  to come i want to be an eagle, because eagle is free to what they want to do and where they they want to go; not totally i want to be alone but i only want is to be independent and be responsible person. And i have to discover my talent and skills.And as a collage student i have to soar high and achieve academic success and bring honor to my family And with the help of concern people after many trials encounter i learn to accept my mistake. Today i was still thinking that i can't explain my feelings that i'll become a part of MSU IIT. But before it happened there are many trials that i been  encounter first is financial problem , common to every person who are dreaming to finish study.and graduate in this course. When enrollment started i worry everything about studying. My parents doesn't have money to sent me at school. then there's miracles happen one relative of my mother offer some money so that i can take SASE exam and eventually i pass the exam. but when i enrolled in collage, i tell it honestly that my first option is to study an Information Technology, but i was late in the enrollment and there's no slot for me in the course i wanted to enroll. When class started i realized that being a teacher is very challenging and useful to our country.And i have learn to love my course and today i want to be a good follower to become a good leader someday.And be a good model to young people. And most of all is to become a good teacher. Because teacher is a life time job.As for know i already know my mission in life to be a good daughter, be more responsible person. To help our countrymen. and i want to be a good sister to my brother and sisters. and bring honor to beloved family

Definition Writing

          maturity''Maturity''' is a [[psychology|psychological]] term used to indicate how a person responds to the [[circumstance]]s or [[Social environment|environment]] in an [[Norm (sociology)|appropriate]] manner.  This response is generally learned rather than [[instinct]]ive, and is not determined by one's age.  Maturity also encompasses being aware of the correct time and place to behave and knowing when to act appropriately, according to the situation and the culture of the society one lives in.{{Citation needed|date=April 2010}}

==Age==
{{See also|Age of majority}}
While it has been shown that older persons are generally more mature, psychological maturity is not determined by one's [[Ageing|age]].<ref>{{Cite journal
| volume = 37
| issue = 4
| pages = 491–501
| last = Sheldon
| first = K. M.
| coauthors = T. Kasser
| title = Getting Older, Getting Better? Personal Strivings and Psychological Maturity Across the Life Span
| journal = Developmental Psychology
| year = 2001
| doi = 10.1037/0012-1649.37.4.491
| pmid = 11444485
}}</ref>  However, for [[law|legal]] purposes, people are not considered psychologically mature enough to perform certain tasks (such as [[driving]], [[age of consent|consenting to sex]], signing a binding [[contract]] or making medical decisions) until they have reached a certain age.  In fact, [[judge]] [[Julian Mack]], who helped create the [[juvenile court]] system in the [[United States]], said that juvenile justice was based on the belief that young people do not always make good decisions because they are not mature, but this means that they can be reformed more easily than adults.<ref>{{Cite journal
| volume = 23
| pages = 104
| last = Mack
| first = J. W.
| title = The Juvenile Court
| journal = Harvard Law Review
| year = 1909
| doi = 10.2307/1325042
| jstor = 1325042
| issue = 2
| publisher = The Harvard Law Review Association
}}
</ref>  However, the relationship between psychological maturity and age is a difficult one, and there has been much debate over methods of determining maturity, especially regarding social issues such as [[religion]], [[politics]], human stem-cell research, [[genetic engineering]] and [[abortion]].<ref>{{Cite journal
| doi = 10.1007/BF01499023
| issn = 0147-7307
| volume = 20
| issue = 3
| pages = 249–272
| last = Steinberg
| first = Laurence
| coauthors = Elizabeth Cauffman
| title = Maturity of Judgment in Adolescence: Psychosocial Factors in Adolescent Decision Making
| journal = Law and Human Behavior| date = 1996-06
| jstor = 1393975
| publisher = Springer
}}</ref>

==See also==
* [[Mental age]]
* [[Adult]]
* [[Mature minor doctrine]]

==References==
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         maturity, was not depend on the age,it is the time when we started to understand small and complicated things maturity is time  for us to know how to behave in the place according to the situation.

It was saturday morning I felt so bored when my sister and her friends invited me 

to go with them in " malasag"I want to go with them. Fortunately my aucle  give me permission  to go with my sister. 

I am so excited..I  brought everything i needed. 

Everybody is excited too, when we are in our way to "malasag" the bus we ride on got plot

or something happen that i dont know..

I suggested  them to walk along the way to "malasag" they stared at me and laugh

.But even they laugh at me they all agree to my suggestion just to have an adventure

. We start walking  many people are keep on watching us while walking

Inspirational story

            The main message in the story i watch, i must be thankful to GOD who create me, because he made me a complete body, i use my two feet to walk, i use my two hands in doing my daily task... And in every failure i made i must continue to achieve the goals in my life. i must raised up every time i fall down, because god give me this body to do a good thing in this world. And we're the only one who thinks that we're not useful we must consider our self as important...and i very inspired to Mr.Nick Vujicic a person doesn't have a arm and feet because despite of  all thing he experience, he continue his life to inspired many people to do things and achieve the goals of life... I think all i can do to help other people to be inspired to their lives,,, is for me to be able to accomplish my goals in life, last day i said to my myself  that i give up because i was failure in achieving my goals of life to be able to have a good grades but then again it never happen but.. when i watch the story i realize that i must try again and again and never give up. Even we're the only one believing in our selves.

My unforgettable experience

            All of us experience a good and bad experiences in life. And that experiences made us of what we are today, because i do believe in the says that we learn from our mistakes. And so for me, i learn from my mistakes in life. I have something to share about experiences in life.
            Way back August 20, 2010, somewhere at cagayan de oro. When i was there, i was very dependent to my friends. For me every mistake i made they are always at my side to comfort. But one thing happen that makes our belief into wrong. One of my friend had a problem to her lovelife, for me were both young to feel that kind of emotion, but as a friend i am welling to give my time just to listen. Friday that time, in our classroom were having been a meeting for the coming acquintance party for the parents. It was August 20, friday were talking about relation my friend was so heartbroken, i just always listining to them ,to what they want,there suggestion, i was always agree and agree of what they want, so we decide to enjoy some moment of our life for being a teenager, because we do believe all of us has a freedom to choose, so we choose to enjoy one moment of our time. I was so scare for our decision i can feel that it was wrong, but as friend i put in my mind that i do this to my friend. So August 21,2010,we decide to drunk it was my first time to do that, i was planning not to join them but my friend got me in the house, so i join them. After 3hrs both of as are full of drunk, me myself i cannot handle, but i remember i still have a task to do.Even though i smell alcohol i still went to school to nbring foods for parents acquintance party, even though my parents are not there, because both of them are busy. That time i don't know if it was distiny for me to drunk or it was just my illusion to meet someone took good care of me. One of my classmate was in the school during that time because he's a CAT officer. He saw me walking alone in the gym, he come with me to know if i was ok, then i told him that "i am ok" but when i answer him, he smell a alcohoic drink in my mouth., he kn0w that if someone knows that i was drunk when i entered the school campus it could caused a lot of troubles. If someone knows that i entered the school that attitude they would keckout me in that school and my classmate know that it was hard for me to keckout in that school, because we're a graduating students. So he decided to be with me all the time. He lead me to the classroom to sleep. When i awaken it was dark but he was still there waiting for me. When i come out in the classroom the party was still going on so i decided to go home. i told hem that  i can handle myself in going home., but he was not agree with me., so he lead me to my way home. Even though we don't have a relation, he still took good care of me, he respect me all the time. That day started with the bad ideas in drinking but my day ends with a nice moment together with someone special for me.... i was not expected to happen. August 20-21 was one of my unforgettable day, bad experience that day i learned to drink and i know it was wrong...but we do that for a reason but our reason was invalid. Good thing happen i know that someone will always there for me if i need him..Know i understand that i don't need a pair of wings to be able to fly, what i need is a true friend that can take me high but never bring me down.
   i learned form my mistake not to drink when planning in cominhg to school...