My Personal Mission in Life

SUNDAY, JUNE 12, 2011

My Personal Mission in Life

             Me as a  student my personal mission in life is finish my studies and proceed to my ambition to be a good and useful citizen in this country, but before that i have to soar high so that i can achieve the goal of my life. to achieve my ambition i have to study hard and get  a high grades and graduate in the course of Bachelor of Science and Technology Teaching Education (BSTTE) major in Industrial Technology (IT).
            This year i studied at Mindanao State University Iligan  Institute of Technology (MSU IIT), were i presently taking up a course of Bachelor of Science and Technology Teaching Education (BSTTE) major in  Industrial Technology (IT). It was hard to believe that i have given a chance to study in a standard school like MSU IIT .I know i don't wings but i believe i can soar high and reach my ambition. And have learn to think  myself as something and see my potential in life, so that my family will proud at me and i'll become winner somehow. I compare myself as a chicken. Why chicken? Because chicken are so dependent and i know it was wrong in the past many years and also this year i am so dependent to my family, they are the one who are making a decision for me and i just follow what they want for me. but this coming years  to come i want to be an eagle, because eagle is free to what they want to do and where they they want to go; not totally i want to be alone but i only want is to be independent and be responsible person. And i have to discover my talent and skills.And as a collage student i have to soar high and achieve academic success and bring honor to my family And with the help of concern people after many trials encounter i learn to accept my mistake. Today i was still thinking that i can't explain my feelings that i'll become a part of MSU IIT. But before it happened there are many trials that i been  encounter first is financial problem , common to every person who are dreaming to finish study.and graduate in this course. When enrollment started i worry everything about studying. My parents doesn't have money to sent me at school. then there's miracles happen one relative of my mother offer some money so that i can take SASE exam and eventually i pass the exam. but when i enrolled in collage, i tell it honestly that my first option is to study an Information Technology, but i was late in the enrollment and there's no slot for me in the course i wanted to enroll. When class started i realized that being a teacher is very challenging and useful to our country.And i have learn to love my course and today i want to be a good follower to become a good leader someday.And be a good model to young people. And most of all is to become a good teacher. Because teacher is a life time job.As for know i already know my mission in life to be a good daughter, be more responsible person. To help our countrymen. and i want to be a good sister to my brother and sisters. and bring honor to beloved family

Definition Writing

          maturity''Maturity''' is a [[psychology|psychological]] term used to indicate how a person responds to the [[circumstance]]s or [[Social environment|environment]] in an [[Norm (sociology)|appropriate]] manner.  This response is generally learned rather than [[instinct]]ive, and is not determined by one's age.  Maturity also encompasses being aware of the correct time and place to behave and knowing when to act appropriately, according to the situation and the culture of the society one lives in.{{Citation needed|date=April 2010}}

==Age==
{{See also|Age of majority}}
While it has been shown that older persons are generally more mature, psychological maturity is not determined by one's [[Ageing|age]].<ref>{{Cite journal
| volume = 37
| issue = 4
| pages = 491–501
| last = Sheldon
| first = K. M.
| coauthors = T. Kasser
| title = Getting Older, Getting Better? Personal Strivings and Psychological Maturity Across the Life Span
| journal = Developmental Psychology
| year = 2001
| doi = 10.1037/0012-1649.37.4.491
| pmid = 11444485
}}</ref>  However, for [[law|legal]] purposes, people are not considered psychologically mature enough to perform certain tasks (such as [[driving]], [[age of consent|consenting to sex]], signing a binding [[contract]] or making medical decisions) until they have reached a certain age.  In fact, [[judge]] [[Julian Mack]], who helped create the [[juvenile court]] system in the [[United States]], said that juvenile justice was based on the belief that young people do not always make good decisions because they are not mature, but this means that they can be reformed more easily than adults.<ref>{{Cite journal
| volume = 23
| pages = 104
| last = Mack
| first = J. W.
| title = The Juvenile Court
| journal = Harvard Law Review
| year = 1909
| doi = 10.2307/1325042
| jstor = 1325042
| issue = 2
| publisher = The Harvard Law Review Association
}}
</ref>  However, the relationship between psychological maturity and age is a difficult one, and there has been much debate over methods of determining maturity, especially regarding social issues such as [[religion]], [[politics]], human stem-cell research, [[genetic engineering]] and [[abortion]].<ref>{{Cite journal
| doi = 10.1007/BF01499023
| issn = 0147-7307
| volume = 20
| issue = 3
| pages = 249–272
| last = Steinberg
| first = Laurence
| coauthors = Elizabeth Cauffman
| title = Maturity of Judgment in Adolescence: Psychosocial Factors in Adolescent Decision Making
| journal = Law and Human Behavior| date = 1996-06
| jstor = 1393975
| publisher = Springer
}}</ref>

==See also==
* [[Mental age]]
* [[Adult]]
* [[Mature minor doctrine]]

==References==
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         maturity, was not depend on the age,it is the time when we started to understand small and complicated things maturity is time  for us to know how to behave in the place according to the situation.

It was saturday morning I felt so bored when my sister and her friends invited me 

to go with them in " malasag"I want to go with them. Fortunately my aucle  give me permission  to go with my sister. 

I am so excited..I  brought everything i needed. 

Everybody is excited too, when we are in our way to "malasag" the bus we ride on got plot

or something happen that i dont know..

I suggested  them to walk along the way to "malasag" they stared at me and laugh

.But even they laugh at me they all agree to my suggestion just to have an adventure

. We start walking  many people are keep on watching us while walking

Inspirational story

            The main message in the story i watch, i must be thankful to GOD who create me, because he made me a complete body, i use my two feet to walk, i use my two hands in doing my daily task... And in every failure i made i must continue to achieve the goals in my life. i must raised up every time i fall down, because god give me this body to do a good thing in this world. And we're the only one who thinks that we're not useful we must consider our self as important...and i very inspired to Mr.Nick Vujicic a person doesn't have a arm and feet because despite of  all thing he experience, he continue his life to inspired many people to do things and achieve the goals of life... I think all i can do to help other people to be inspired to their lives,,, is for me to be able to accomplish my goals in life, last day i said to my myself  that i give up because i was failure in achieving my goals of life to be able to have a good grades but then again it never happen but.. when i watch the story i realize that i must try again and again and never give up. Even we're the only one believing in our selves.

My unforgettable experience

            All of us experience a good and bad experiences in life. And that experiences made us of what we are today, because i do believe in the says that we learn from our mistakes. And so for me, i learn from my mistakes in life. I have something to share about experiences in life.
            Way back August 20, 2010, somewhere at cagayan de oro. When i was there, i was very dependent to my friends. For me every mistake i made they are always at my side to comfort. But one thing happen that makes our belief into wrong. One of my friend had a problem to her lovelife, for me were both young to feel that kind of emotion, but as a friend i am welling to give my time just to listen. Friday that time, in our classroom were having been a meeting for the coming acquintance party for the parents. It was August 20, friday were talking about relation my friend was so heartbroken, i just always listining to them ,to what they want,there suggestion, i was always agree and agree of what they want, so we decide to enjoy some moment of our life for being a teenager, because we do believe all of us has a freedom to choose, so we choose to enjoy one moment of our time. I was so scare for our decision i can feel that it was wrong, but as friend i put in my mind that i do this to my friend. So August 21,2010,we decide to drunk it was my first time to do that, i was planning not to join them but my friend got me in the house, so i join them. After 3hrs both of as are full of drunk, me myself i cannot handle, but i remember i still have a task to do.Even though i smell alcohol i still went to school to nbring foods for parents acquintance party, even though my parents are not there, because both of them are busy. That time i don't know if it was distiny for me to drunk or it was just my illusion to meet someone took good care of me. One of my classmate was in the school during that time because he's a CAT officer. He saw me walking alone in the gym, he come with me to know if i was ok, then i told him that "i am ok" but when i answer him, he smell a alcohoic drink in my mouth., he kn0w that if someone knows that i was drunk when i entered the school campus it could caused a lot of troubles. If someone knows that i entered the school that attitude they would keckout me in that school and my classmate know that it was hard for me to keckout in that school, because we're a graduating students. So he decided to be with me all the time. He lead me to the classroom to sleep. When i awaken it was dark but he was still there waiting for me. When i come out in the classroom the party was still going on so i decided to go home. i told hem that  i can handle myself in going home., but he was not agree with me., so he lead me to my way home. Even though we don't have a relation, he still took good care of me, he respect me all the time. That day started with the bad ideas in drinking but my day ends with a nice moment together with someone special for me.... i was not expected to happen. August 20-21 was one of my unforgettable day, bad experience that day i learned to drink and i know it was wrong...but we do that for a reason but our reason was invalid. Good thing happen i know that someone will always there for me if i need him..Know i understand that i don't need a pair of wings to be able to fly, what i need is a true friend that can take me high but never bring me down.
   i learned form my mistake not to drink when planning in cominhg to school...

Mysterious event #4

    Some dead people are still their staying with their love one, because they are sacred to live their love one and they are not ready yet, and maybe they have something to do, that they don't do or finish when they are still alive, but i can says that were not the only one stays here in the world. The spirit are still moving around, so we don't have to fell that were the only one because maybe we can hurt a spirit, we most be careful to our action.Life is important we have to make things right so that if we past away will not regret because we made our part in this journey of life. I have something to share about my unforgettable experience in life. 

            3 years ago, i was third year that time somewhere in cagayan de oro city. It was October 2008, Friday. In our school we have day and night classes, in many reason and personal choice i choose to study at night. That time me and my peers make a project, it was late evening at 9:30pm, but for some reason that i don't know. i felt bad during that time, i fell so cold. and every night i went to comfort room i someone following me, but no one is there. we can't finish our project because both of us fell hungry. In the following day my one friend said "your so very silent" and it's not good because there are something around us maybe good or bad elements. four o'clock in the afternoon, we don't have class my friend said be careful always and he said that in our daring our class he see someone holding my hair and lying my back......... i don't trust him, cos maybe he was trying to scare me, but deep inside i am very scared......... then the following day my friend txt me at night she said  she had a bad dream,  early morning when i decide to go to school then my friend arrive in school then we talk what was her dream about then she cry and cry but i don't know why, then i ask her what is your problem then she said had a dream about me...... She dream that there was a bad elements inside my body i was in my mind, i was flouting  in the air and after a minute i was gone....So i decided to change my attitude from silent mode into a noisy girl....... when i was studied forth year high school i turn to be in silent mode again the 1 daughter of my uncle was sick,.......they  bring to hospital somewhere in bukidnun  my ante and i were took good care of them it was 3:00pm when i arrive in the hospital from school. my ante decided to went to house  get a dress for her daughter but when she arrive in the house  her 3 daughter get sick to then she decide to bring in the hospital all her daughter were all in the hospital, they arrive in the hospital at 7pm.. she decide to get nap.. i can't sleep until 3in the midnight.. the doctor nurse said i have to sleep so i decide to sleep near to the daughter of my ante, she only 1yr old that time. then it was 4 in the midnight the doctor will give a medicine one of the daughter of my ante i was awake because she was crying she don't like the taste of the medicine so I'll be one who give a medicine so she don't cry after a minute i can't breath i fell someone holding my mouth so can't breath then i collapse the nurse bring me at the emergency room for examination then she said i was stress, but i don't trust her because when i was in the emergency room was the only one there the one nurse went out because someone call her, when the nurse out she close, then i close my eyes then the door were  open and close repeatedly but i can't fell the air, so it means that it's not  the air why the door open and close i was really scare that time then after a minute one janitor arrive i fell free that time because i know someone is in my side close my eyes, i fell cold air damping my face, i open my eyes again the janitor was gone....... the door started open and close the water in the c.r were starting to flow.......i just imagine that its not true,,, i cold air was came closer to me so open my eyes no is there......... i full asleep in waiting the doctor when i open my eyes the doctor is there taking my pulse rate.... she said i have to come down because my heartbeat i so past......... i question my mind how do fell calm every time i look strait to her face, she look like dead..... then she decide i have to stay in the hospital that is the start that i can't sleep in the night in those hospital in the day i admit i can't sleep because i was the only one in that room i fell my noise,i hear crying pushing the chair, rooming around the following day there was one patient in that room that day the patient arrive i can't hear the noise and that  day is my last day in the hospital the daughter of my ante was ok yet so i decide to went home by my own to get rest, i was the only one in the home. first night i fell some one again following at me always,... again my fever was back i fell some one is there waiting me to  die i can stand because when i try to stand i can't fell the floor i was flouting i think............   3 days later they all come home then when they arrive i can't hear the noise again.......................

               know i understand that if no one is there beside me someone will be there at my side maybe they are good or bad.......... but most of all i have to pray every time so that bad elements can't come near to me and i don't have to think them so they can't gain power to come beside me..... i believe in soul even though some people don't believe in soul

I stop to say thank you to my beloved parents #3

              know a days the value of people to their family is different, base on my own experience the people today are less respectful than the past years. its because of the people that surrounds them and they can adopt the bud attitude that they always see. some people don't respect their parents, and they live their old parents in the home for the agents. But not all people have the same reason why they live their parents in that place its because some reason they don't have a time to take good care of their parents due to working problem because they are to much busy to their work and forgot their obligation to their family and some times its cause they forgot to give value to their family and mostly to their parents. People today are very imitator, even though they know that act weird, they continue copying the attitude of others. People today are very aggressive, its easy to adopt the attitude of the people that they always see, and some reason, why the people today are less respectful, because some parents can't discipline their children. and they practice using a good manners.

            Ten years from now maybe, I'll graduate in this course, and i hope not maybe, it would happen in real  because i know my parents are expecting me a lot and i don't want them to fell bud .and ten years from now I'll be working that time, I'll never reject my parents, I'll  always give them  a time to go were they want to go, and maybe if i have my own family i will never change my attitude to them, because are my parents they give me a good and wonderful life, they work hard. they give their effort just to sent me at school to have a good and wonderful future, i am very proud of them despite of many trials we experience may parents are still together, because they don't want to have a broken family. and ten years from now i don't want my parents work because i know that time they are old to work and i want my parents stay with me,and I'll be the one to give their needs and i want to comfort them all the time they need someone to be at their side.Maybe that time i have my own family and  i want my parents to stay with me all alone.

1.   I'll say  to my parents" thank you so much " for the love and care that they are given to me. I am very thankful because i have a parents like them, because despite of poverty they make way and try their best to sent me at school, because they know that education is important and they always said to me that education is the only treasure that they can give to me. And thank you to my parents for the support even though i lost something, even though they know that i cant win in particular thing they always encourage me to continue believe in myself, to aim high for a good and wonderful future. I never stop saying thank you to my parents, because even i lose my dream i don't want to lose my parents, and for me they are the biggest gift i receive from god, because if they are not here i will never in my position today because of them i continue believe in myself ,aim high, so that they would proud to me.Saying thank you to my parents is not enough to pay all their hard work but god knows how much i love my parents my family. So love your parents appreciate all the they do. because its for our own good.love them always say to tour parents i love you because
   maybe it would be end. For my mother Susan Valiente  Uballas , and for my father Ernesto Dypongko Uballas. i love you and to thank you so much for the love and care. and for my beloved family, relatives, friends, thank for the support. I love you and thank you so much to all.

a good reader and writer someday #2

       As a student, i think i can consider myself as a good reader and writer. I know there's a lot of time for me to develop my knowledge, skills, and attitude in reading and writing. In this year an for many years to come, the trials that i may experience it could be a part of my learning skills in writing. I can right everything happen in my life just to improve my ability in writing. Every time i use to read novels, books magazines, or any reading materials there are several words that is really hard to express the meaning,  that's why when i use to read a book and i can't understand what is the meaning, it makes me more conscious and more interesting to read. By reading it can developed our knowledge in building a good vocabulary,whenever we use to have a good vocabulary its easy to communicate in other people and if we have a good grammar we can't fell shy because we know what we are talking. Using the method in reading, the survey, question, read, recite, and review is every useful because when i read books, i use to ask question,even in my mind, i made some disagreement or some times i agree of what i have read in the book. I read the book many times not only once, because when i read repeatedly it easy for me to understand, and its easy to write if i know what i am reading. And today, i know there are many times to develop my reading and writing skills,and i continue developing my skills so that i become a good professional someday